Rohan writes:
I am 25 year old guy and am in love with 33 year old woman. She is a widow and having a baby. I love her and she also loves me, but she is not ready to marry or live with me. She is afraid what people around will say. She is willing to marry again but with someone older than her and who would be acceptable to others. She wants my opinion about this and if I think it would it will be good if she marries another guy.
She says if I promise to live happily in the future then only she will marry another guy. The problem with me is that my family will not accept her so I also can’t do anything. And I know living alone my whole life is not possible. She also needs some happiness in her life and a father to her baby. But the problem is that if she talks about any other guy I can’t control myself and I become very upset. So I am totally confused what advice to give her.
So Nancy please help me out of this problem and give me the right decision which will be beneficial for all of us.
Waiting for your reply...............
Nancy's Relationship Advice:
Dear Rohan,
I know how difficult it is to let someone go whom you love, but I do believe that is the best approach to this situation. As you stated, she desires to marry someone older and wants a father to her child. She appears unwilling to marry you because of the age difference, and I imagine your family's lack of acceptance has a lot to do with it as well.
Rohan, a lasting, loving relationship needs a solid foundation. I know your heart hurts when she talks about marrying someone else, so I do encourage you to break off this relationship with her as soon as possible. It is important that you take care of your heart and allow her to find happiness and in turn God will bring the right person into your life.
You will be amazed how good God is when you allow Him to do His will in your life when you take a step of faith and surrender your will.
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1 comments:
My brother is 26 when he got married to his wife who is 36 years old. Age does not matter at all. As long as you love each other then go for it.
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