Rob Asked:
“My wife tells me she loves me but is not in love with me. She tells me that her mind is made up that is over, but her heart still has something. I tell her I can stay with a friend for a while and give her space, but she doesn’t want that. She wants to try and fall back in love with me. How should I go about this. Rob (33, Virginia Beach, VA)
Nancy's Relationship Advice:
Dear Rob,
Husbands and wives do not fall out of love with each other over night and in your marriage it is important that you start opening the lines of communication and figure out what has gone wrong. Your wife is willing to work on your marriage and open to regaining those feelings of love she believes are not there right now.
The fact that she is committed to making your marriage work is a very positive sign, and she needs to know that you are equally committed to doing whatever it takes to get on the other side of this crisis. I encourage you to seek counseling from a person who basis their advice on solid Christian values. It is an important step towards healing whatever has led your wife to declare this statement that she is not in love with you.
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